Of course, on other days she might only be thinking about all the things about him that turned her off (e.g. he was too smothering and needy, he lacked confidence in himself around her and others, he didn’t know how to keep creating a relationship dynamic between them that would make her want to treat him well, be attentive, loving and affectionate towards him).
This causes her to think things like, “What was I thinking! Why did I ever unblock him? He’s all wrong for me.”
Naturally, this might leave a guy feeling confused and asking “Why does my ex girlfriend keep blocking and unblocking me?”
If he reacts in any of those ways, he will fail her test and prove to her that he’s not really the man she wants to be in a relationship with
In many cases, the answer to that question is: She’s not 100% sure if she should move on and find another guy, or if she should give him one more chance. (more…)